Saturday, April 2, 2011

To Speak or Not to Speak (Part Five)

Some people make cutting remarks, but the words of the wise bring healing. ~ Proverbs 12:18, NLT
In my study about when "to speak or not to speak"...I'm reminded today about the written page.  Many times I read things and wonder "what was that person thinking?"...since communication is more than words (body language, visual expression, etc.) and the written word is usually a one-sided conversation.   I see things people write on Facebook, My Space, newspapers, email, etc.  do people really feel that way or just venting?  Does everyone really need to know...everything?  Today, I'm reminded to be careful with not only my verbal "speech" but my written "speech" too...these words are in black & white, have potential to hurt others and are harder to forget with a simple "I'm sorry". 
This verse spoke to me today --- reminding me that some remarks are cutting (hurtful) -- but I have to remember to seek the words from wise counsel to balance it out.